In our years of working with couples in counseling, it has become clear that when couples go through changes that this often destabilizes them. Often couples find themselves feeling separate and frustrated with one another and have no idea how this happened. The truth is that individuals have very different ways in which they cope with change and when their instinctual responses to change do not line up then problems arise.

In this episode, Tarah and EJ explore the different life transitions couples face. They discuss the reasons why transitions can be difficult for couples and provide insight into how couples can stay connected and supportive during times of change.


Tarah and EJ also offer an at-home program for Couples seeking to build a better relationship.


Relationship Renovation at Home is designed for couples facing struggles in their relationship and couples who want to strengthen their relationship. Relationship Renovation at home gives couples the tools to communicate in a healthier way and strengthen their intimate connection.

This program focuses on developing a deeper understanding of yourself, your partner, and your relationship. And by doing so, you will gain confidence in the resilience of your relationship. 

Each of the 22 lessons has a video with Tarah and EJ discussing key concepts of relationship wellness that help you understand underlying dynamics and common obstacles that couples face. The videos prepare you and your partner to work through accompanying exercises that stimulate conversation where you build the trust, empathy, and understanding needed to achieve your relationship goals.

Relationship Renovation at home includes:

 22 lessons structured approach to rebuilding your relationship

 Exploration of underlying dynamics and common obstacles that couples face

Sequential exercises focused on deepening emotional and intimate connections

 Access to a closed Facebook Group with 600+ couples sharing their experiences

 Get direct access to E.J. and Tara’s Relationship Expertise


Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home

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